Life In Sosua: Would You Rather?

As it relates to dating and meeting women there are many different options. If you like tall women they are here, if you like BBW type women, they are here, if you like dark or light skin women then they are all here in Sosua. 

All these options got me thinking about if I had to make a choice which attributes and characteristics would I rather be with for a main chica or #1. 

Would You Rather 

Be with a woman who  is a 10 but with two kids or a woman who is a 6 and no kids? 

I know for some men looks are very important and being with a highly attractive women is the prize. Personally for me I don't really care. As long as I can look at her face  without makeup and not feel appalled then it's all good. 

To be honest, a lot of the 10's or very attractive women tend to be headaches and want more and more and can quickly become like a monster to a man's bank account. And add on top the fact that she has two kids already. Nah, I'm good on that one. 

I would rather be with an average looking women and have her full attention and affection towards me, then be in third, fourth or fifth place with a woman who has two kids and one or two baby daddies. 

Date a woman who is 35 years old or date a woman who is 19 years old?

Well, I 'm 27 years old so to seriously date a woman 8 years my senior could be a lot to deal with. Her baggage will be heavier and expectations much higher than that of a younger woman. 

Also physically speaking having a child at 35 and up could get tricky. 

I know some people say the advantage of dating an older woman is that she has more experience, but at the same time as a man do I want to be led in the relationship or be the one who is the captain of the ship. 

If given these two options I would rather date a woman who  is 19 years old, just for the simple reason that it is more natural for a woman to be with a man who is older than her by a few years. 

And really I know some people might raise their eyebrows about her being 19, but it's really only an 8 year difference and for example if I was 34 and she was 26 then no one would bat an eye. 

Have one girlfriend or a squad?

Obviously there are pros and cons of both, but in general I would say having  a squad or rotation is a much better way to go, especially in Sosua. 

The chances of things not working out with one girl is very high. Like the old saying goes you should not put your eggs in one basket. 

Obviously with a squad you have to deal with more women which can lead to more headaches, potentially. 

But on the scales, I believe the positives outweigh the negatives of having a squad, because you can always keep things fresh, add or subtract easily and never be overwhelmingly drained by one woman's craziness or negativity. 

So I would rather have a squad over one girlfriend.